When you feel offended or hurt, you are afraid to open up yourself.
Feeling offended is your choice.
It’s also your choice not open up for real love, not to receive love. cz. you are afraid to be hurt again.
You only can be hurt when you make your love dependend on an other, but just of yourself.
You don’t need the other to be loved.
You only need the other to see your own love.
The other only reflects the love you created for yourself.
The other can’t make you happy. You make yourself happy.
The other only reflects the happyness you created for yourself.
When you make the choice to search for love in yourself and not depending on others, you can’t feel offended or hurt.